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Want To Get Off The Rollercoaster?


I’m a writer and we tend to have emotional highs and lows—seems to come with the dedication to writing stories.

I’m sure painters have something similar. I’d venture the guess that all creative folk do

Lynn Biederstadt‘s blog, Sky Diaries,  says, when describing itself: “A journey that’s kinda like Life.”

So, perhaps, everyone can relate to this post. Still, creative types seem to have more “thrilling” rollercoaster-living.

In one of Lynn’s recent posts, she said:

“We create. We imagine. We doubt. We doubt some more. And then what?

“How do we pick ourselves up and move forward? How do we proceed in the knowledge that the feedback didn’t come…the next gig didn’t follow…the blog went unread…the piece was rejected?

“Falling into that emotional not-so-grand canyon is too easy. We walk at the cliffs’ edges of ourselves, along uncharted paths that can—and do—too easily crumble away under our feet. Rejection (or, more often, the resounding echo of our voices into the nothingness of response) is devastating. And that lack of recognition is always present, or about to be.”

Lynn offers what she calls a “solution of the moment”—Conscious Joy.

I urge you to read that post. I hope you’ll leave Lynn a comment. I can dream, if you have ways to modulate the intensity of the up-and-down cycles of the creative life, that you’ll also come back here and share them with me :-)
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10 responses to “Want To Get Off The Rollercoaster?

  1. lynnbiederstadt October 31, 2011 at 4:52 pm

    Thanks so much, Alexander, for sharing this reminder I try to give myself as regularly as possible–and thank you especially for sharing it on the occasion of my 500th post on skydiaries. They’re all milestones, aren’t they, every one of them? But this one feels like a birthday, somehow. Thanks again!
    -lb

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  2. Selena October 31, 2011 at 8:08 pm

    Good post, Alexander. I jumped over to SkyDiaries. What a wonderful site! Thanks for the link.

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  3. Catana October 31, 2011 at 10:13 pm

    Diff’rent strokes… I just wait out the lows. I know they’re always going to pass, eventually. But maybe there’s a difference between people who are reacting to the external–lack of applause, rejection, etc., and those for whom the lows are internal–part of a biological cycle.

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    • Alexander M Zoltai October 31, 2011 at 11:26 pm

      Catana,

      Thanks for the introduction of your perspective on this issue.

      Certainly, one’s awareness of the “source” or “motive power” of the cycle-of-feeling bears heavily on how one deals with its effects

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      • Catana October 31, 2011 at 11:38 pm

        Of course, it probably doesn’t matter whether it’s external or internal. The important thing is to find a way of dealing with it that works for you, personally. Not always easy, in either case.

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  4. cmmarcum November 2, 2011 at 1:29 pm

    I like her ‘solution’ to the problem–conscious joy. Our state of mind is a choice, and there is no value in depression.

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